Katrina Kenison, Mitten Strings for God – Reflections for Mothers in a Hurry
Does this sound like mealtime at your house? I love the thought, but between trying to convince three munchkins to stay in their seats, to fights over eating broccoli, pleadings to use their inside voices, and six trips to the kitchen for mom, the bustle of our table often feels more like a zoo than a sacred space.
And yet, every now and then we’ll share a meal in which everyone stays in their seats and eats without complaint, in which giggles replace arguing, and even those rare moments of the older two asking questions and sharing the beginnings of real conversation with one another. It is these times that remind me that the work of training in these early years will not only pay off later, but is an irreplaceable time in itself. The chaos of learning prayers, of training in manners and teaching appreciation for wholesome meals may not be the quiet, peaceful picture that my mind conjures up when hearing the term “sacred space,” but these are matchless moments that are holy in themselves.
So, for now I’ll light a candle to fulfill the part of my heart that longs for serenity and embrace the sacred chaos of mealtime in these early years of motherhood.
*Written for our November MOPS newsletter. Katrina Kenison's book, Mitten Strings for God, which I quoted at the beginning is a great little book of vignettes written by a mother who chooses to live simply. It has been an encouragement for me and could be a nice Christmas gift for mothers of young children. :)
2 comments:
Elizabeth, such a great article. I totally understand where you're coming from. :) Have a Merry Christmas!
I am so encouraged by this post. Your description of meal time is spot on to what it's like over here too. I love your heart and your vision for motherhood. Lately, it has felt like I've lost all ability to look forward to the fruits to come for the training now... instead, I often feel discouraged & defeated. But just like you shared; there will be moments - or the occasional meal - where it is peaceful, enjoyable, kids stay in their seats and laugh, and eat a healthy meal without complaint... and I have to remember what you just shared; that those are a gift and a reminder of God's grace as He shows us the evidence and value of pouring into and investing in - these precious children He's entrusted to us. Here's me sending a big hug & hoping you feel very blessed... you are such an encouragement!!!
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