Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Times, They Are A Changin'

It has been a time of transitions in our household.

Transition #1: Grace & Isaac are now in week two of pre-school. How did my little munchkins get to this point already - SCHOOL?! They're going to pre-school out at our church, which has helped tremendously in easing them into this new routine. They were already comfortable in the setting, knew a few of the teachers & even a couple of the students before the first day. They have been eager to start school and hardly let me hug them as I dropped them off the first day. Eli thinks he is ready too. I had been carrying him and put him down to hug Grace & Isaac good-bye, when he began to walk off, but stopped to smile, wave & blow me a kiss! Sorry buddy, you're stuck with me for another two years. :) Really though, I am looking forward to have a couple of mornings each week to focus on Eli, while knowing the other two are learning, growing & enjoying their time away from us.






Transition #2: A few weeks prior to the start of school, Grace & Isaac made the switch from toddler beds to "grown-up" beds. Sleep had not beeng going so well & these two were ending up in bed with me far more regularly than I care to admit. So...sticker charts, a week of rough nights, and viola! They're now doing well sleeping all night in their own beds & I am a much happier mama with better rest! Once the kids filled up their sticker charts, they were able to pick out their own new bedding, pictured below.



Transition #3: With the start of school, we did have to face one sad realization. Grace & Isaac are on the complete opposite pre-school schedule as their buddies Olivia & Isabelle. We've had a nearly weekly playdate with the Jones girls since the twins were born. I knew the day would come when school would prevent our treasured playtime, but I didn't expect it to happen just yet! We'll somehow figure out a way to see each other, but Julie & I are both feeling bittersweet about what this next stage means for our time together.



Transition #4: Our dear Kelli, who was with us all summer, decided to move to North Carolina at the end of August! We are excited for the journey she has ahead, but miss her already.



Transition #5: Because I know a few of you who read this are parents of toddlers, I have to mention one last transition. I recently read Love & Logic Magic for the Early Childhood Years, by Jim Fay & Charles Fay. It has honestly changed things around here in a matter of days. I love the respect, empathy & choices these parenting techniques give children while ensuring that the parents are the loving authority figures. There is plenty more I could say, but I'd rather just encourage you to go check it out for yourself. It is a relatively expenisve little book, so I just checked it out from the library, but may be ordering a copy of my own to keep!

Sunday, September 12, 2010

My Boy



In late August, I was fortunate to get to spend over 24 hours alone with Isaac. We titled our day Isaac & Mommy's Excellent Adventure, and did our best to make sure it was an adventure. I made up clues the night before so that Isaac would have to figure out what was next throughout the day. We started out with an early morning mystery run that ended with breakfast at Petit Chat, the bakery down the street. We then went to Other Mothers (one of his two requests for the day!) and scored an entire fall wardrobe for him on store credit. He was excited to pick out "new" clothes, which is a good thing since he has now outgrown all of the hand-me-downs we've had from generous friends. We spent a little low-key time playing at home and then his buddies Adam & Colin introduced him to the Fish Hatchery, where we all shared a picnic lunch. The highlight for the boys was, of course, feeding the fish & watching them fight over the food. After his rest time we removed one of the swings on the swingset so that he could try out the trapeze & rings, which quickly became his new favorite part of the set. A few good friends came over for a Papa Murphy's dinner and a chance to be a part of Isaac's adventure. We ended our day out at Eric's. He was still in Scotland with his kids, but let me know Isaac & I could go tromp around out there (Isaac's send request for our day), which was a fabulous finale to our adventure.



Checking out the fish with his buddies

Upside down or right-side up this kid is a bundle of energy!

Laughing with Kyle

Tickle war with Coco

I told you he is strong!

Look at those muscles

He could swing for hours out there

Our self-portrait


Isaac Justice, I thoroughly enjoyed our adventure! You are a joy and a delight. You challenge me to be a more intentional mother, you play hard, you make me laugh, and your sharp mind continues to amaze me. I love you, buddy.